I don’t think “I feel bad that I don’t get sexually harassed” is part of feminist reasoning. It’s one person’s opinion, not part of the general feminist belief system, so calling feminism circular doesn’t work. It just means that you can’t please every person all the time, especially when you’re talking about a large, spread out group like feminists.
But I understand your pint.
I’ve seen it before, though better expressed; “isn’t it messed up that I feel jealous of women who get street harassment, because at least they get noticed?”
It’s an understandable feeling, I think. As long as one admits that it’s not right.